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Doc Love is a talk show host and entertainment speaker who coaches men in his seminars. For the past 30 years he has asked thousands of women, "Why do you stay with one man versus another?" Guys, e-mail me at doclove@doclove.com with your love challenges. All will be answered, but because of space, only letters of general interest will be printed. To find out more about The "System" visit me at: www.doclove.com or (800) 404-2644. Doc Love is a talk show host and entertainment speaker who coaches men in his seminars. For the past 30 years he has asked thousands of women, "Why do you stay with one man versus another?"





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DO WOMEN LOSE INTEREST IN MEN IN STAGES?
These love tactics will work, George. If they don’t - Heaven forbid - then your girlfriend’s Interest Level has already reached Stage Four (49% IL).

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DO SOME WOMEN FLIRT WHILE THEIR BOYFRIENDS ARE AWAY?
The Queen Stroker is a sister of the Professional Dater, and like her time-wasting sibling, she has 40%-49% Interest Level. In other words, she may go out with you, but only when it suits her purposes and never out of love for you.

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CAN A WOMAN BE COAXED INTO TAKING THE NEXT STEP?
Charlie, if your girl truly liked you, she would have been the one asking to take the relationship to the next level (Wouldn’t that have been better?). So next time, let the woman be the one to come on heavy.

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SHOULD I DATE MY BUDDY’S EX-GIRLFRIEND?
Even if your best man gave you his blessing, it would have been a disaster. In his whacked-out state of mind, his ego would have made his mouth grant your request to date her, but then when he saw you two together, it would have felt as if you had plunged a bayonet through his heart. How would you feel if the same thing happened to you?

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AS THE SONG TITLE SAYS, GIRLS: “STAND BY YOUR MAN”
Your fiancée’s decision to move out effectively ended the relationship. Why? Because she should have gotten her emotional needs with you rather than leaving town – regardless of your financial situation. You said she hung on as long as she could, but she should have hung on longer.

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IF SHE LOVED YOU SO MUCH, WHY DID SHE MOVE AWAY?
When your girlfriend asks, only talk about all the good things going on in your life. This way you will nonverbally convey the message: “I can live without you.” You must play Challenge to the hilt – that’s why it’s not the time to be mushy and to display neediness or insecurity through words and trinkets.

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Dealing with Mixed Messages in the Game of Love
Next, let me recommend that from now on you always pick your date up at her home. There are many reasons for doing this: 1) It's the chivalrous and gentlemanly thing to do. 2) You get to spend more time getting to know each other while driving together. 3) A woman who won't allow you to pick her up at her home is either uptight or has low Interest Level.

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CAN YOU TURN FRIENDSHIP INTO ROMANCE?
She is also loyal, and loyalty is the most important virtue your future wife can have. If you don’t believe me, just imagine how devastating it would be to one day find your true love smooching with your best buddy. When a woman is loyal she tends to be trustworthy, and all successful long-term relationships are also built on trust.

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Help! My Anti-Establishment Girlfriend Has Started
You sound like an opened-minded guy, but she should be dating someone in a band, not you. You two are like oil and water.

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The Last Thing You Want to Be Is Her Friend
Before the woman gives a green light to a man’s advances, she instinctively looks for the three C’s of male desirability: confidence, (self-) control and Challenge.

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What Can The Gigolo Teach Nice Guys About Romancing Women?
This is where the snake becomes the charmer - he starts telling the woman how thin and beautiful she is. Secure women would immediately recognize this buttering up as a con game (which is why he screens them out) but women with low self-esteem fall for it every time.

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SHOULD A GUY TOLERATE A BROKEN DATE?
Of course, it’s possible – though extremely rare - for a woman to have a genuine emergency on the night of your date. But in these cases, she would call only to change the day and time of the date – not to cancel it completely.

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How to Deal with the Bait and Switch at Work
After all, the amount of female Interest Level required to give an acquaintance a wrapped gift is too high to be wiped away by a couple of mistakes. My guess is that this woman never had high Interest Level in you to begin with. Good thing you found this out sooner rather than later.

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Is Love Stronger than Prophecy?
Warren, you need a surefire way to determine this girl’s true agenda. Don’t know how? Have no fear – that’s why I’m here. Just follow me, and I will lead you to the Promised Land!

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Can a Kiss Between Friends Ever Be Forgiven?
In the early days, when you first became aware of your girlfriend’s suspicious relationship with another guy, you had a great opportunity to exercise your self-control and find out how much she really cared about you. Instead of putting her “friend” down and appearing weak, this was the perfect time to stay silent, smile – and go out with other women!

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Why Don’t the Other Love Doctors Help Men?
Nowadays, men need my tactics more than ever. With so many men giving up on advice, only women populate the relationship aisles of the bookstores. Imagine: women - who already understand men - are the ones buying advice books while the people who need help the most – the men – are getting their hearts stomped on! In the Battle of the Sexes, this is not what I would call a fair fight!

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Should a Man Double Date with Jack Daniels?
Blacking out during a date… gee, guy, do you think you might have a drinking problem? Your girl said she forgave you for your antics, but I think she was just trying to let you down easy. The fact is, intoxication and church girls don’t mix.

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DO SOME WOMEN FLIRT WHILE THEIR BOYFRIENDS ARE AWAY?
The Queen Stroker is a sister of the Professional Dater, and like her time-wasting sibling, she has 40%-49% Interest Level. In other words, she may go out with you, but only when it suits her purposes and never out of love for you.

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DOES A WOMAN WITH HIGH INTEREST LEVEL GIVE YOU THE RUN-AROUND?
Seriously, the number of times she lost your number was evidence enough that her Interest Level for you was lower than whale fertilizer. If she had the number of a guy she actually liked, she would have tattooed the digits on her stomach to prevent her from losing it!

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Do Ernest and Julio Gallo Hold the Key to Women?
Unless a woman likes you at least 51%, not even Ernest and Julio can help.

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CAN HARD TIMES AFFECT A WOMAN’S INTEREST LEVEL?
It's as if you were imitating a Macho Boy saying, "It's my job to take you to Vegas, not his!" She will deduct points from her Interest Level due to your apparent lack of confidence and self-control.

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CAN A WOMAN LOVE YOU WITHOUT TOUCHING YOU?
Why are the above gestures so important? Because they show affection - the natural result of high Interest Level - which in a happy marriage, leads to lovemaking.

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DO YOU REALLY WANT TO BE HER FRIEND?
The most humane way to say goodbye to a woman you’re not interested in is to never ask for her home phone number to begin with. But if you have already gone out with her and have lost your Interest Level during the date, then the next best thing is to never call her again.

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